8 Hidden Secrets for Reading Female Body Language

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8 Hidden Secrets For Reading Female Body Language

Women are naturally relationship oriented. Because of this fact, their body language is active at all times. And is very readable. You just have to know how .

Getting your attention is the first thing that you’ll see if she’s interested in you. She may glance in direction frequently, or walk by your table a lot without making eye contact with you. She’s looking to get you to notice her openly.

When she gets your attention and you make eye contact with her, watch her eyebrows. When a woman’s eyebrows momentarily raise up, then she’s happy to see you. This is an involuntary movement and comes completely from her emotional center.

The eyes of a woman will tell you an enormous amount in a very short time. If her eyes shift their gaze from one of your eyes to the other in a rhythmic fashion, you know that she likes you. When her eyes start shifting faster and go to different areas of your face and shoulders, she is very interested. Her mind is working as fast as her eyes are.

A woman will demonstrate where she thinks she is the most appealing to a man by touching those parts of her body. She may play with her hair, caress her face, or stroke her breasts or thighs in a smoothing move. Her signals mean to draw your attention to these parts of her body AND let you know where she likes to be touched.

She will touch you frequently. Touching your arm or hand, play around with your hair, make sure she’s standing or sitting as close as possible.

When setting close to you, she’ll aim her knees and shoulders in your direction. All of her attention is on you.

She’ll also mirror your moves. Again, this is all involuntary. Mirroring in one of the body language signs of letting a person know that you are in total agreement and harmony with them.

Lastly, watch what she does with her lips. Smiling, licking, stroking them. She is thinking about that kiss you are going to give her. And she’s waiting impatiently.

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Body Language: What is your Date Trying to Tell You?

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We’ve all heard the term “body Language”, but do you really understand it? Body Language is a form of nonverbal communication which is usually understood as the process of sending and receiving wordless messages. Such messages can be communicated through gesture, proximity, body language or posture, facial expressions and eye contact. Generally speaking, there are two things that happen during a conversation; content and process.

1. Content is what actually is said.

2. Process is all the other things that happen during a conversation.

In other words, the content is when we say one thing and the process is when we mean another thing.

Understanding your date’s body language or nonverbal communication can help you determine whether or not your date is on the right track. Misreading your date is perhaps the number one reason that a date becomes a disaster. Many singles often say that they were unsure what their date was thinking or feeling which led to an uncomfortable situation. To help you avoid uncomfortable or a confusing date, read the following 6 nonverbal indicators to help you better understand whether or not your date is interested in you.

1. Eye contact

While sitting with your date, pay close attention to whether or not your date makes routine eye contact. Eye contact or the lack thereof is a powerful communication tool. If your date readily makes eye contact with you, it is a sure sign that he/she is interested and comfortable with you. Strong eye contact is an indicator that the person is involved in your conversation and respects you. Good eye contact also conveys honesty and trust.

The lack of eye contact, however, can mean several things. Typically, the lack of eye contact is a sign that the person you are interacting with is deeply uncomfortable and/or uninterested in you. Poor eye contact can also mean that the person is very shy. Usually, if a person has difficulty making eye contact because of shyness, they will find other means of nonverbal communication to express their like for you if they are interested.

2. Quietness

Everyone who has ever dated has gone through this. Talk about frustrating –countless minutes, even hours of nothing but SILENCE! You try and try but it seems your date just isn’t interested in talking. Ask a detailed question and only receive a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ response. A quiet date could mean just a couple of things. The simplest explanation could be that your date is in a bad mood which has nothing to do with you. Sometimes silence means that your date is shy and may not feel that you would be interested in anything they have to say. Silence usually means that your date is disinterested and bored with you. If your date happens to be quiet and refuses to make eye contact, it is a clue that you may be better off calling it a night and moving on. You will have to evaluate this scenario on your own.

3. Restlessness

This is a sure indicator that your date is not working. If your date is constantly checking his/her watch, fidgeting with items, constantly moving around in his/her chair and seems to be somewhere else your date really is not interested in being present with you. This behavior should tell you that your date would rather be elsewhere.

4. Gazing

When your date is constantly scoping the room to see who else is there, it is a sure sign your date is not interested in you. Looking around and scoping is a mechanism to avoid communicating with you. Conversely, if you find yourself in a crowded place and your date is only focused on you, your date is very interested in what you’re doing and have to say.

5. Body Posture

This is an important and obvious sign of comfort of discomfort. Signs of discomfort are easy to read. They are: constantly leaning away from you, the folding of his/her arms, tightly crossed legs, stiff spine and a body that’s turned at an angle away from you. Those forms of body posture should tell you that communication and physical contact is unwanted.

6. Personal Contact

Physical contact is by far the easist form of nonverbal communication to detect. If your date avoids touching in any manner, holding hands, hugging or light kisses he/she is really turned off by you. Repeated attempts to have physical contact with your date will be taken very negatively if your date objects. If your date initiates physical contact, you should consider it a measure of comfort with you.

In most situations, a combination of the six indicators will be present which should tell you if your date is a hit or a dud. Reading body language is something all of us do on a daily basis but sometimes we try to ignore it when we really want to “like” someone or have them “like” us. Meeting or dating someone new is an important aspect of human interaction. If you want to improve your dating successes, start paying closer attention to what your date says and what your date is really saying.

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3 Secrets to Reading the Body Language of Women

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For single guys, trying to meet woman can be a very frustrating process. Even if we go to the right places and find interesting girls, it still can be difficult due to the fact that guys have to be the ones who initiate a conversation.

Making the first move can be quite intimidating due to the fact that many guys don’t know what to say or how to start talking to women.

Even worse, a lot of guys are unsure if a girl will be interested in them.

But if you become a master at reading the body language of women, you can avoid that initial uneasiness and have the confidence to approach women.

So what is body language?

Basically body language is the collection of traits and behavior that all people give off which indicates our conscious (and sub-conscious) feelings. By paying attention to the body language of a woman, you’ll be able to tell if she wants you to talk to her.

Having this knowledge will make approaching her that much easier. So when you locate a girl that you are interested in, take a look at her body language and pay attention to these three indicators of interest:

1) Eye Contact

Before even talking to a woman, try to make direct eye contact with her. Often you’ll see her looking away quickly and then glancing back at you. If she holds your eye contact, then that is a definite indicator that she has an interest in you.

In addition, when she knows that you’re looking at her, study how she interacts with her friends and environment. Try to find anything that indicates a level of nervousness. This shows that she is attracted to you and is having trouble composing herself.

2) Touching Her Hair

For some mysterious reason, women show their interest in a guy by playing with their hair. By watching how she touches her hair, you’ll find out her level of interest.

Once you make eye contact, study how she touches her hair. The first thing you should look for is if she flips her hair. If you see her toss her hair from one side to the other and then looks directly at you, this indicates that she has some level of desire for you and would like you to engage her in a conversation.

Some other hair indicators can include caressing her hair as she talks to her friends or twirling hair around her finger. If you see these actions coupled with looks in your direction, then you’re being sent a subtle message.

3) Pointing Her Body Towards You

A powerful way to find out if a woman likes you is to watch how she positions her body after making initial eye contact. If she positions her body in your general direction, then this shows she is attracted to you.

When studying her, you are basically looking for
certain indicators which demonstrate a subconscious desire for you to talk to her. Some gestures can include:
– Feet pointing towards you – Exposing her wrists in your direction – Widening her legs

If you see any maneuver from a woman which indicates an “opening up”, she is telling you that she is attracted and wants you to initiate a conversation.

By paying attention to the body language of women, you can find out their level of desire without even speaking a word. If you’re the shy type, then this is a great way to build confidence before making your first move.

So next time you’re looking for women, take some time to check out what they are saying to you without speaking a word.

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Three Body Language Secrets for Approaching Women

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Approach Women with the Right Kind of Body Language

Your body language can say a lot about you. People can tell if you’re happy, sad, bored, in pain, excited, tense, etc. by what your body language is saying. The body language you have when approaching women is the first thing they see and will make you or break you.

There are three rules to remember about your body language: 1) be friendly and approachable, 2) sideways facing for approach, and 3) be relaxed.

1) be friendly and approachable – if your posture is rigid, your arms crossed, and your shoulders are tensed up, and your jaw is locked, you look anxious and possibly angry. Try this posture: leaning back on a rail or wall, your arms are down to your sides, your head is up and your shoulders are relaxed. You have a smile on your face and your shaking your head up and down while you’re talking with others. This is a much more open and friendly posture and facial expression.

2) sideways facing for approach – when coming up to meet a woman avoid coming directly in front of her. This type of approach is too direct and can make a woman feel aggressed. Approach her slightly on the side. Not too far back where she can’t see you, but not directly in front of her. This gives her the option of turning to you to give you her full attention, or, stay sideways to you to assess you a bit. This give her a bit of control when meeting you and the first conversation.

3) be relaxed – remain relaxed in your posture and attitude. Yes, your attitude is part of your body language. Smile, move your arms and hands freely. Move your eyes around her face from time to time. This will be more natural and friendly, putting her at ease.

If you follow these three rules for body language when you go out to meet anyone, anywhere. You’ll find that this is easy, quick, and friendly.

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What Does Your Body language Say About You To Women?

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You have heard it before. The majority of communication, as much as 93%, is non-verbal! This makes verbal communication worth a scant 7% when it comes to communicating with anyone! In the dating game men are so caught up in what to say, we never consider how we should be saying it. How a man moves and carries himself speaks volumes about him.
If you feel like you are saying the right things and conveying good qualities about yourself but still seem to fail when it comes to building attraction with women, your body language could be what is holding you back.
Now imagine the exact opposite scenario. You strike up a conversation with a beautiful woman in a bookstore and the conversation is completely normal. You’re not being flirtatious or funny at all. Yet, you build that gut level attraction, she feels electricity between you two and agrees to have a cup of coffee and see you again!
This article will give you a primer on body language that will greatly increase your power to attract women! Once you know what your doing wrong, what to do instead, and what to look for, the right body language will become second nature around women.
You want to show women you are confident and build that sexual energy from across the room or without saying a word? The first thing about confidant body language is something your mother has been telling you since you were a kid. Stand and sit up strait. A hunchback is not sexy or confident. Walk and stand with your head up and shoulders back, like a freaking man! Simple enough but look at yourself in the mirror and pay attention to how you sit and stop slouching. Your mother will be so proud!
The second and less obvious body language rule you must learn is to slow down! Your walk, the way you turn your head, and your gestures should all be slow and calm. This creates a mysterious and confident image. Another element of slowing down is eliminating fidgeting. Stop taping your fingers, peeling the labels from your beer, taping your feet, all of it. It is a dead give away that your nervous. These slow movements make you seem very confident but there are a few more important details to remember.
Slowing your movements down still wont be good if your movements still convey nervousness or insecurity. This is why the fidgeting had to go and that is why looking all around the room every two minutes must go! When you are in a social venue, never scan the room looking for women. Most men do this repeatedly. It makes you look predatory and weak at the same time.
Most unfortunate is it makes you look like your not having fun or engaging conversations with the people your with. Always engage your friends or group. Have fun, smile, laugh. When you glance up and happen to meet a beautiful woman’s eyes you will look like a more interesting person.
Now that your movements are relaxed and slow, and your posture is as it should be, open up your stance and take up a little more room. That’s right, take up more room, and don’t try to hide. Stand with your feet spread a little further apart, this goes for when you’re seated too. A man of status and confidence does not try to squeeze his way into a group; he is standing as an equal or leader of the group with plenty of standing room.
Now it is time for my favorite and perhaps the most important aspect of body language. When first meeting, eyes with a woman can be magical. Your eyes may be all you have! What do most men do wrong when it comes to this very important aspect of non-verbal communication? A couple of things actually.
The first and most common is they will look away immediately after making eye contact with a woman as if they got caught doing something wrong! Another classic is to simply have the wrong look on your face or in your eyes. Don’t look at women like a puppy begging its master for table scraps and on the flip side; do not look at a woman like a wolf does pray!
When your eyes meet a beautiful woman’s hold her gaze for a couple of seconds, then look away slow as if you don’t want to stop looking at her. Your look will convey your attitude. It may sound funny but you should try to think of something confident when your eyes meet hers. Just don’t think of anything sleazy because it will show on your face.
Think things like: I think your cute, you seem interesting, and I could show you a good time, etc. You will find your gaze will be one of a slightly raised eyebrow a narrowing of the eyes just slightly, which conveys that you like what you see and a mysterious confidence.
When it comes to communicating non-verbally you will find the more conscious of your movements you are the more intuitive it can become. The idea of conveying anything more than general ideas like confidence may seem a little far fetched to you right now. While we are not talking about telepathy here, what we are saying is your moods and attitudes can be communicated through body language much more than you think.
Women see it and that means you need to see it. This article will give you the basic understanding of body language that will develop your social intuition. Before you know it, you will be communicating volumes without speaking a word and building amazing connections with women while saying less.

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